episode 41 of my podcast ‘The deep end’.
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Questions answered:
- Well, I made yet another bad decision. I am currently sleeping with a married man (he’s only 23… 3 year age difference) however, I used to be friends with his wife. Her and I no longer talk but him and I still do. She left him for a few weeks because they were having problems, and he sought me out. Eventually we did have sex and it was amazing. Not only do we have sexual chemistry but I feel there might be an attraction between our personalities as well. My question is now that she’s back should I stop seeing him because it’s the right thing to do, or is it ok to continue this relationship if it’s making both of us happy? I should also tell you shes 6 months pregnant. Now I am well aware they will always have this child in common, and I’m not sure if he’ll ever actually divorce her, but I don’t know if this relation is worth pursuing because there is a chance their relationship won’t work out. What do you think? - I was recently seeing a guy who is attentive, caring, funny, generous… As someone who has been fucked around by guys a lot I finally thought I’d met a decent one, one who made me feel wanted for who I am and not just for what I can provide him with sexually. For the first time I felt that what was developing between us was entirely positive and genuine, so when he asked after about a month if we could be official I of course said yes… One week later he’s changed his mind, he still has feelings for his ex so we can’t be together, which upset me but I accept it, I know he cares for me which is why he’s done this after a week rather than stringing me along, so despite my disappointment I have no hard feelings towards him for it. The one thing I ask of him is that if they do get back together that he lets me know himself rather than me finding out on facebook or through a third party casually mentioning it. This happened to me this time last year and the pain and humiliation I felt then is something which took me a long time to get over. I asked him not to disrespect me like the other guy did, which he assured me would not happen… Then today I see a photo of him with his arm around her and kissing her head taken literally hours after he broke up with me. Now obviously this alone doesn’t mean they are back together. But is it totally unreasonable of me to expect that he be honest with me about it if they are? It is not the thought of them getting back together which bothers me
– if they still have feelings for each other and it would make them happy to get back together then OK, I accept that, but surely it’s not too much to ask that he respect my feelings enough to tell me in person? I told him many times that truth and honesty are things I value greatly – if he can be true to his feelings for her then why can’t he be honest with me about it? - I’ve always had kind of a crush on my friend’s brother, only it’s something I’ve denied for as long as we have been friends (5 years) and recently, we kind of.. hung out.. Hung out In the sense that I somehow gave him a blow job. We made a promise/agreement to not tell my best friend (her brother) because we have a slight feeling she’ll be angry or will basically murder him. We’re basically pretending as if it didn’t happen. I’m not that type of girl who will do anything with a guy, I’m actually a ridiculous prude with that stuff. So, Chris, here is my question… Is it wrong to fool around with/date your best friend’s brother?
- I’m in my early twenties and I am genuinely attracted to this guy in his mid-thirties. There’s something seriously appealing about a guy who has his shit together, I find him extremely attractive, intellectually we’re a good match, we’re interested in a lot of the same things and share a lot of the same views. However, our experiences differ greatly
- I’m a virgin and he is definitely not, he has traveled, he’s set in a career, etc and I’m a university student who has never gone anywhere or done anything. Is it far-fetched to think that he could be attracted to me given my lacking experience (both sexually and in life)? and given the age difference might he consider me relationship material? I think you’re suited to answering this in your opinion because his personality is similar to how I perceive yours.
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