January 2012
39 posts
why sex is not love.
Since when is sex the “ultimate” form of love and why do we all just take this as gospel?
The foundation of the sexually repressed argument is that we shouldn’t “sleep around” because sex is losing its meaning. And why does it have a universal meaning, as in, when did we all agree that sex is the absolute pinnacle of a demonstration of love?
The more that I think...
December 2011
28 posts
“I will stand with anyone, I don’t care what color you are, as long as you want...”
– Malcolm X (via sirmitchell
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a little commercial break in-between rants.
According to the FedEx tracking numbers, my new book The Little Things should be arriving tomorrow which means if it comes in early enough they will be in the mail tomorrow or Saturday and Monday at the latest. So if you’ve been putting off supporting your favorite loud-mouthed writer, take that money your mee-ma gave you for the holidays and order that shit now and you can have my new lil...
Why cuddling is better than sex.
Through all of my mis-adventures with internet dating, I have learned that a vast majority of women love to cuddle. It’s like a litmus test women like to throw out there to see if it sends men running. For the record, I love cuddling. I have and continue to cuddle the shit out of some girls. That being said, the idea of cuddling a stranger is utterly repulsive to me - and only now do I...
Lee Ving had it right.
It has been a lean holiday season over here at the deadxstop headquarters. Shopping was almost non-exsistent due to keeping the lights on and paying for my new book to be released. But don’t worry, this won’t be one of those posts where I complain about not having money because we all know this is the life I have chosen. For the right to say that I am following my dreams without...
How to get my new book for free
Remember when he brought you flowers for your birthday and took you out to dinner? Remember all the promises of “forever” he whispered in your ear at night? And do you remember all the nice things he bought you?
Probably not.
Odds are, they blended in with all the rest of the nights. Over years, faces become indistinguishable, phone numbers disappear from your phone and old...
Episode 44 of my podcast 'The Deep End'
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my podcasts sponsored by adamandeve.com who have given me this crazy offer if i advertise for them on my podcast. if you click this link or enter ‘DEEPEND’ when checking out you get 50% off most items, 3 free dvd porns AND free shipping. that shit is practically...
What's your plan of attack?
Often when I peruse the mindlessness of celebrity gossip blogs, I find myself strangely inspired. It’s an odd feeling that leaves me confused yet strangely invigorated, like waking up in a strange bed with a raging erection. I page through the stories and pictures and think about how that life is so far from what I want for myself. I have no desire to constantly look to the masses for...
Only a handful of the framed print deal left.
Only a handful of the framed print deal left.
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Dear 16 year-old Chris
Dear 16 year-old Chris,
I have always maintained, when delivering good and bad news, start with the bad because you should always end on a high note. That being said, mid-calf socks with shorts will ALWAYS look awful. But most importantly, quit playing things safe and go all out. Rage into the bullies even if that means you get punched in the mouth. Grab that girl by her face and tell that...
Talk to me about anything.
Once upon a time I was a personal motivator, or in lesser words - a life coach.
Regardless of what you think of me I feel like I did some good. I genuinely feel that I helped bring some positivity into people’s worlds. While I think I do very few things well, I do believe that I can motivate the crap out of a handful of people and be the assertive friend some people need.
A couple years...
EPISODE - 43 OF MY PODCAST 'THE DEEP END':
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The little things - PRESALE up now.
“I have been lucky enough to have had many influential women in my life and I have tried my best to honor them by paying attention. I want to understand what drives and motivates them. What it is that they have in common. To shine light on what we, as men, are culturally trained to ignore, dismiss, or belittle. To not generalize, but to better understand the differences between the sexes...
episode #42 of my podcast: 'The Deep End'
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my podcasts are now sponsored by adam and eve who have given me this crazy offer if i advertise for them on my podcast. if you click this link or enter ‘DEEPEND’ when checking out you get 50% off most items, 3 free dvd porns AND free shipping. that shit is practically free....
The little things - 100 ways to show a woman she...
Pre-sale for my new book, The Little Things, begins today. $10 plus postage. Start warming up your paypals.
Limited 4x6” print framed passages will be available as add ons.
taking this to my grave.
There was nothing bearable on the television and I wasn’t tired in the least. It was 1am and the couch was uncomfortable so I grabbed my bike off the wall and went out riding. I headed north because the neighborhoods are a bit more quiet that direction. I rode down Melrose, passed my moms house and kept riding. I ended up in a little neighborhood called Roscoe Village. I rode slowly as I...
Fuck reading.
It’s taken me a while to be able to say this but I actually think I am good at what I do. Not great, but good. I was just sitting on the couch the other day thinking about how I have learned to effectively communicate my gestures and humor. I have figured out how to infect you with emotion and bringing you into an emotional world that exists in my head just for that moment. This is what...
30 days.
Last month I gave myself the challenge of going 30 days without masturbating. If you know me, you know how big of a proponent I am of masturbating. I think it’s fun, healthy, and shouldn’t be something any of us are ashamed of doing. That being said, masturbation had been taking up far too much time in my life.
On average, I masturbate 1-2 times a day for at least 1-3 hours. Say...